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Bringing to the table the point of view of someone who completely separates sex from emotion, even with my girlfriend, I say orgasms are not really necessary. Honestly, the orgasm is just the pleasure peak, and usually it heralds the end of the intercourse for the male, though it is by no means a rule, but by the time one reaches it, you've already had most of the fun and pleasure from the sexual act. Of course it's a little different for women, since they can have many orgasms, but it's still not needed for everybody, though each one will have a different opinion.

Personally, I'm only frustrated by the lack of orgams if the sex lasted really long, like over an hour and a half long. Otherwise, I'm very happy with just having fun.

But again, I have a REALLY hard time reaching an orgasm, so I kinda grew used to it.

Well, I've experienced orgasm numerous times through masturbation, but I've never had sex before, so my opinion is a bit...not valid. Ideally, I would think it would just be amazing just being with my significant other in that way, and the orgasm wouldn't matter. I'm a foreplay-heavy person anyway; I don't expect the actual sex to last that long, and whether or not I've reached orgasm doesn't matter. I'm with Allindur; most of the fun has already been had. Orgasm is just a form of closure, and not even that sometimes. There's always the chance you're good to go again right after so lol. I just don't see it being that important.